"Hello, are you a model? you must be a model? if not--you should definitely model."
This is probably how I'd clumsily fumble around a conversation with you had I seen you at a bar--that is of course in the improbable event that I would even approach you at a bar without first taking a shot of patron to calm the nerves. That one shot then turns into 3 or 4 shots of falsely advertised "liquid courage" until the sloppy mess that resembles me has drunk himself stupid and essentially turned the inconsequential embarrassment of an awkward conversation into the much larger embarrassment of being that dude who can't walk, talk or even sit straight.
But here I am, sober as a whistle at yes, 2:00 a.m. and I'm inspired to tell you something.
Your smile is perfect, seeing that smile is not only going to make your future boyfriend/husband work harder & become better, but it's also going to remind him how much he loves you and how lucky he is to be with you.
But what I've learned, is that your (everyone's) smile is a gateway to their personality. It's what we're first judged by and the first impression is--as you know--a lasting one. Cold blank expressions on people's face will make others cringe to be around them. On the other hand, smile too much, and you'll be perceived as easily-amused. What I'm saying here is this, if you want to find the "right guy" who will be who you want him to be and treat you the way you want to be treated, then you're going to have to make him earn your smile. Because as glowing as you are when you're smiling, every Californian forgets how beautiful even the sunshine is.
I don't write like this to everyone, so take it for what it's worth. And if it comes off as judgmental, then I apologize.
I guess I'm inspired to write something unique to you because of two things, first, I just read a book that had a chapter dedicated to "the smile"; second you challenged us fishermen to write something unique to gain your attention; third, I'm challenging myself to get to know someone who I would've normally passed over in fear of rejection, as if the words "beautiful" and "sweet" were an oxymoron.
Anyways, take what I've said and trust your instincts, I'm learning this game of life just the same as you are. You can apply this theory on the smile when you're ready to job search and venture down your career path. Your smile will land you the job, your hesitation to use it will lead you to management. I'm not experienced enough to know, yet, but it certainly makes sense.
